If someone cheats on you they do not love you, remember that. If someone cheats on you they do not care about you as much as they say they do. If someone cheats on you it means that for a split second you were off their mind long enough for them to put another person in arms that should only be for you. If someone cheats on you, dear god, I hope you don’t go back to them because you are worth so much more than that.
People are making fun of her but that little girl is beautiful and I love her smile. Fucking adorable. She’s perfect the way she is. Healthy the way she is. There’s no difference between her and other children.
No, she’s not healthy.
It’s cruel to make fun of her, but that’s so much the lesser issue… She’s physically in danger. She will live a short, disappointing and unfulfilled life without intervention. She’ll miss out on most of the things that people look back on. No great adventures, little opportunity for travel, shame and humiliation if she ever tries to fit in the seatbelt on a plane.. If she’s brave enough to go to prom, it’ll be flawed because if people are kind enough to be supportive of her, she’ll know deep down that they’re making a point and patting themselves on the back over how nice they are to her.
I was overweight until I was 16. At 15 years old and as a freshman in high school, I weighed 300 and was too ashamed of myself to change for gym class. No girl had ever even been a friend to me, let alone want to date me. I made it just in time to experience some of high school the way I wanted to, to get to feel attractive and wanted. I went to vocational school for outdoor recreation and was physically able to go skiing and rapelling and take a canoe on a forty mile journey on the border of Maine and Canada, and I know how close I was to missing out.
If people don’t REALLY help her, and they tell her she’s perfect the way she is, they’re lying to her so they feel better about themselves and she’s just fodder for their social experiments. She’ll miss out because people weren’t strong enough to know that you can love through and with pain and helping is harder than telling someone who’s dying that they’re fine the way they are. You can’t avoid the ugly in the world, you have to step into it and through it and come out the other side. People need to tell her the truth even if it breaks their heart to hers broken. It’s the only chance she has to really experience life, and it has the benefit of making sure hers isn’t cut short.
i love how the two most cited love stories of all time are romeo & juliet and titanic and they both involve teenagers who knew each other for less than a week
and Leonardo DiCaprio played the male lead in both them.
Without winning an oscar for either
somehow we always end up here